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Whats up with Peoples Attitudes?

Where are all of the attitudes coming from? As I go out into the world, all I see is attitude. Everywhere I go.  I have noticed as I am traveling that the hotel staff has attitude. Instead of the hotel workers where I am paying to stay making me feel at home while I am traveling, they are rude. I mean, Really, seriously?  Like they are doing us a favor by waiting on us and renting us a room. I think its  the customer who pays their wages isn’t it?  I guess if business is good people aren’t so worried about customer service. But they really should be concerned. You never know who you are giving the bad service to. and what about Karma, you know if gets back to the giver eventually.

Now when I go out, I always like to make a nice appearance. Sometimes I will dress up more that other times. Usually the difference is that I will wear Higher shoes, dresser pants instead of  jeans, a nicer top, you know the drill. But I will tell you I get treated differently depending on how I am dressed that day. If I have a suite jacket on I receive a completely different attitude.

 I learned a long time ago in the Real Estate business to not judge a book by its cover. People who are the wealthiest may not look or dress the way you think they should. So do not ever judge someone by how they look on the outside. They may be a really be an awesome person on the inside.

I think women seem to be the worst when it comes to having a n attitude and judging one another. Judging you before they know who you are as a person seems to be the norm. Just because you make a nice appearance does not mean you are a snot or an evil person. It means you are secure in yourself and care about how you look when you go out into the world.

I am always judged incorrectly. I am this really nice spiritual person but I  am judged other wise because of how I look and dress. I used to think it was something I did or said, in my younger days and then I finally realized, as I got older and wiser it’s not me, its the insecure people that I am dealing with. They have never met a nice pretty smart lady before. Well surprise, surprise. Just because a person dresses nice and is nice looking does not make them an arrogant snot. That is what we have learned from our preconditioned society. Crazy huh. Now I know how Jesus must have felt. Here he is going out and doing good and preforming miracles and the people just could not believe it was possible that a person would do that. He did not fit their expectations.

So they nailed Jesus to a cross and killed him. He was not what they expected and he did not seem to fit in with the norm of the day.

Matthew 6:24 Reads;

No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon.

 

Ephesians 4;31-32 reads-

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

The bible clearly lets us know that we all came from the same God and that we are one. People seem to forget this. They think if you have more money that most or are better looking than your friends that you should be treated differently.  God treats us all the same. And FYI, God looks at the inside of you, into your soul not the outside of you. He also made sure you arrived here on earth without any worldly possessions  and the Lord makes sure you leave this earth without any worldly possessions. FYI.

So the next time you are given an attitude by someone,consider the source, the person does not know any better. But you do and make sure you are nice and have good attitude. You be the example to all the people you come into contact with. Or at least try…..

Many Blessings,

Nancy 

 

 

 

 

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